Personality Development


Our thinking affects our mental, intellectual and also the physical makeup. Psychosomatic disorders are well known manifestations of sickness, infirmities or deprivation in one’s thinking. Refinement and creative orientation of thoughts on the contrary is found to bring positive changes at the emotional and behavioral levels and thus also improve one’s ability of progressive social adjustment.  

Personality Development means enhancing and grooming one’s outer and inner self to bring about a positive change to his/her life. Each individual has a distinct persona that can be developed, polished and refined. This process includes boosting one’s confidence, improving communication and language speaking abilities, widening ones scope of knowledge, developing certain hobbies or skills, learning fine etiquettes and manners, adding style and grace to the way one looks, talks, walks and behave overall imbibing oneself with positivity and human values and eradicating negative mental tendencies. 

The first and most important task for personality development is to first identify and focus attention on the central root that directly or indirectly governs the course of our lives. Think and ponder over what really makes one what one is as a person? It is the force of intrinsic tendencies of the mind. The hidden desires activated by these tendencies drive the mind and generate the corresponding currents of thoughts and trigger the brain for matching actions. Although the conscious mind appears to be our decision maker and manager with the brain being its counterpart at the level of the physical body, the real ruler is our unconscious mind. The intrinsic impressions on it are so intense that these block even the voice of the soul. So, for self- refinement and self-transformation, it is essential that we first purify our inner self – especially the unconscious mind, reign in its passions and control its wayward tendencies that dominate our desires, thoughts and actions. Transformation of the central root will transform our life in no time. 

The whole process of this development takes place over a period of time. Even though there are many crash courses in personality development that are made available to people of all age groups, implementing this to routine and bringing about a positive change in oneself takes a considerable amount of time. 

Personality development is gaining more and more importance because it enables people to create a good impression about themselves on others; it helps them to build and develop relationships, helps in your career growth and also helps to improve your financial needs.

After all, personality development is nothing but a tool that helps you realize your capabilities and your strengths making you a stronger, a happier and a cheerful person. 

Few tips to develop his or her own aura or charm.

·         You may have heard this a million times “Think Positive”. It works.

·         Smile. And smile some more. It adds to your face value and to your personality as well.

·         Read a few articles in the newspaper loudly. This will help in communicating fluently.

·         Follow table manners and dining etiquettes

·         Take good care of your health, dress well, be neat and organized

·         Prepare a chart that mentions your strengths and weaknesses. Now concentrate on the latter and find ways to improve upon the same. Do not forget to strengthen your strengths.

·         Spend some time alone concentrating on you and yourself alone.

·         Practice meditation and yoga. It will help you develop inner peace and harmony that will reflect outside.

·         Do not live a monotonous life. Be creative and do something new all the time. Nothing bigger than the joy of creative satisfaction.

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